how to coax your gf

HOW TO COAX UR GF.

1. NEVER LEAVE HER ALONE TO COOL DOWN, even if she tells you to go away or does not want to say anything. 95% of girls hate that. They like to pout and sulk and ignore you while you keep trying to cajole. Keep doing that. It may take 5min for one girl... or 10hrs for another.... before she cools down.

2. BE SINCERE. If you are trying to apologize, then be sincere about being sorry. Girls can't stand guys who say sorry but then when they find out more try to push the blame back to the girl, or take the girl's reasons lightly.

3. After you have done 1, she would have decided to stop her cold war with you, and she would open her heart again and tell you EVERYTHING she feels, and why. LISTEN ATTENTIVELY. DO NOT INTERRUPT except to clarify. When she is done, and appears to feel better that she's given you a piece of her mind, THEN you may try to explain your side of the story patiently and contritely.

4. Never make her feel that her anger is unjustified EVEN IF YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE DONE NO WRONG. Show her that you understand how she feels and that you promise you will try to be more sensitive and not be so stupid in the future.If you have done 1-4 well, she would have forgiven you by now. However, her mood may still be bad because of the whole episode. NOW you can start cracking silly jokes to cheer her up or do anything silly/funny/romantic/sweet/touching. To do the cheering up BEFORE step 1-4 is just suicide ok. She will be even more angry to find that you have the mood to clown around when she's so upset about something else.

** Its so damn true lor ... all guys should memorise this by heart ... but i doubt ever will somebody do that ... cos guys just dun get!!!!

** Stolen this piece from Laopo's blog. Hehe ... *peace*

he didnt ... so eventually i did ...

its an agonizing day for me ...
something happened ...
unhappiness and disappointment manifested due to my stubbornness and brainless act ...
pieces and pieces of my heart was eaten up till I couldn't take any more ...
without the heart ... what is the use of pride?
So I decided to take the first step to stop the pain ...
praying hard that this is the correct move to take ...
the result wasn't what i expected ... but still, it wasn't that bad ...
it felt like the pain after popping a pain killer ...
its still there but it doesn't hurt so much that you feel like dying anymore ...
sometimes I just love myself for being such a wimp ...
such a coward ... such a loser ...
If the world is full of winners and people who wont give in, without people like me how can there be peace?
ya ... i know ... i am just consoling myself ... cheers ...

Baby Ally Whatever

Saw this clip from my cousin's blog ...

This little girl is super cute and funny!

WHATEVER!

chivas

Just came back from Van's house after a drinking session with the remaining bottle of Chivas kept at YK's house. It been a long time since we had our last drinking session at the hotel during Laopo's birthday last year. Almost a year le! We used to have fun like this frequently in the past until some stuff happened and everything died down.

But nevertheless, everytime we have a outing it is still as fun as before. All the same crap, lame jokes and teasing. All so old already but still act like kids. Hahaha ... okok i know u all surly wanna say im the only oldest right? fine lor ...

So when are we meeting again ar?
Who is the most free one?
Organise another outing k!
I wanna play mahjong, go sentosa, sing ktv, go mind's cafe, chiong, and DRINK!!
So the most eng one better do ur job hor ... *wink*

imm and reg jap 2

woke up early in the morning to collect my Taiwan spree clothes which took 3 months to come ... OMG! And another spree in May is still one the way. Taiwan spree always take so long to come lor ... Im so not going to order again ... arrgghh ...

After collecting the stuff, me and Jass went IMM's esprit outlet cos she wanna check out some belt. The things there are really much cheaper than other stores cos they sell mostly out of season clothing. But to me they still look relatively in fashion, so who ever interested can go check it out. Initially, I wanted to buy a white leather bag. The retail price was $89.90, but now its only selling at $49.90. So Im like super tempted lor! but Jass say its not nice, so in the end I only bought a belt with her, which cost only $6.90. Not a bad deal too! haha ...

In the evening, I met up with Weixiang to sign up for our Japanese elementary 2 class and after that had dinner with him and Harvey didi. We had Pepper lunch!! My favourite and WJ's hated food. Lucky he is not with us, if not i sure cant eat. Hahaha.

We were chatting about work and studies. WX's going to start school in NTU soon and Didi thinking about changing his course in NTU after he ORD from army. Then stories about success friends or schoolmates of theirs started pouring in.

"1 friend's internship pay is $1200 la.", "Another one was headhunted by a company and his starting pay is $4,500.", "1 pretty friend of WX is studying XXX science in NTU." blah blah blah ... And sitting beside me is 2 potential NTU engineering graduates ...

Suddenly I feel so small ... small ... small ...

yah ... So what if i am also a mass communication graduate ... my cert is just a piece of shit to me ... the best way to put it I bought it back with just $22K. Where do I stand among all these intelligent and young people with a bright future? Where Can I Stand??

Im not smart, my studies sucks, my designer's path is still just a dream, im not confident, im not outspoken, Im not good at anything and basically im just a good for nothing. If im pretty then ok la, maybe I can do some bimbotic job, but the worst is im not even up for that. And to think of that some people can even be pretty and smart at the same time *envy*

How can thay do that? Are they just born intelligent? Or do they work smart? How can they cope studies and life? Im just curious. yah I tried too but too no avil. I have learnt that hardwork does not equal result. No matter what i do, how hard i try, nothings seems to come out good. Maybe Im just not smart like what WJ says.

Hearing about people getting $5k a month is like a dream to me. When can i achieve that? 30 years time? Not even sure whether i can get a bloody job after I graduate from OS. How can i support my parents in the furture? Hai ... Im feeling so depress ... *cry*

finally updating again

oh yeah! im finally updating my blog ... i know its been a long time since i blog and cobwebs are building all over liao ... haha ...

Been busy, then lazy, then trying all means to forget that i have a blog ... yeah tts me ...

Just had a study break last week, but sadly didnt really have the chance to go play oso le ... stuck at home most of the time doing homework ... and eventually missing out a lot of stuff too ... cannot date ... cannot play ... cannot chiong ... so many cannot ...

Unlike WJ who is clearing his leave now ... playing all day lor ... going here going there ... so good ... going out til i duno where or who he going out oso ...

actually suppose to post pictures of brother's celebration de ... which is like 3 or 4 weeks ago but i haven even bluetooth the pictures to my comp lor ... wahahaha ... talking about being lazy ...

then just now i was playing with facebook with jassine ... keeping poking her bunny and petting her frog ... wahahaha ... so funny lor ... imagine our msn conversation ... "eh poke my bunny le" ... "send me a present ... i like the cow" ... haha ... so cute ... got chance u all must go play play ... hehe